The job, as previous mentioned a few times here, is at a high school right around the corner from my house. Stephen actually graduated from this high school.
I am officially the new ED/LD special education teacher for a study skills class, and two co-taught math classes.
On December 3rd, I become a Lafayette Ram.
I'll let you know more about the job, as the time nears, and I actually find out more about what I'll be doing.
Saturday, November 3, 2007
Out of the mouths of babes
A conversation I had with a 3rd grader the other day:
One of my little friends was talking with his peers, and I walked up. He looked at me and said, "umm..Mrs. Cooke. Have you ever seen a show. I think it was a long time ago. Like in the 60s or something. Have you ever....Do you know the show "Full House"?"
As he waited for my answer, I died laughing inside. And managed to say, "yes, I have seen that show before."
To which he replied, "Really? Wow." (just picture the amazement on his face)
Who knew, that I would make a little guys day by having watched "Full House" before!?
One of my little friends was talking with his peers, and I walked up. He looked at me and said, "umm..Mrs. Cooke. Have you ever seen a show. I think it was a long time ago. Like in the 60s or something. Have you ever....Do you know the show "Full House"?"
As he waited for my answer, I died laughing inside. And managed to say, "yes, I have seen that show before."
To which he replied, "Really? Wow." (just picture the amazement on his face)
Who knew, that I would make a little guys day by having watched "Full House" before!?
Friday, November 2, 2007
Monday, October 29, 2007
Tuesday, October 9, 2007
Kitty Hawk
DH (Dear Husband) and I went down to the Outer Banks the other weekend. It was a "get melanie recharged for student teaching and everything else that she'll be doing" trip. And it worked!
We stayed in an ocean front room (but we couldn't really see the ocean over the dune..but it was named the Colony IV...so I don't know if the Colonies I-III were washed away..thus the HUGE dune!). It was fairly nice. We ate in Manteo (at a bad restaurant) and then shopped a little.
We slept in separate beds Saturday night. There is a reason! Neither of us had really been sleeping very well...and we saw the opportunity. Stephen has had trouble getting used to sleeping with me (see this post about the sleeping habits of Katie's DH...that's me too) , but it has gotten better. Well we woke up the next morning...and neither of us had slept any better. Which is kind of a relief..cuz we only have one bed, and I would have hated to have woken up to hear, "MAN, I slept well!".
Sunday we went to a great breakfast at Western Sizzler (we couldn't remember the last time we had eaten at one of those. Maybe when it was in Williamsburg, which was about 15 years ago). Then we went between Mileposts 9 and 14 about 10 times!! We went down to Kitty Hawk Kites. And then back to 17th Street Surf Shop. Then to another surf shop (in search of Reefs for DH). Then BACK to Kitty Hawk Kites to get me some Crocs (greens ones...so incredibly comfortable). Then back to 17th Street to get the pair of Reefs DH really wanted (which happened to have a bottle opener on the bottom of each flip-flop. As they say in the Guiness commericals, "BRILLANT").
Then it was back to VA, for a long week (semester).
We did sit on the beach Saturday night. It was incredibly breezy, and a little chilly. But it was perfect. The beach was empty. And we just watched the clouds and the moon and the waves. Incredible.
A few pictures:
Can't wait to go back. Maybe we can make this a yearly trip!?
We stayed in an ocean front room (but we couldn't really see the ocean over the dune..but it was named the Colony IV...so I don't know if the Colonies I-III were washed away..thus the HUGE dune!). It was fairly nice. We ate in Manteo (at a bad restaurant) and then shopped a little.
We slept in separate beds Saturday night. There is a reason! Neither of us had really been sleeping very well...and we saw the opportunity. Stephen has had trouble getting used to sleeping with me (see this post about the sleeping habits of Katie's DH...that's me too) , but it has gotten better. Well we woke up the next morning...and neither of us had slept any better. Which is kind of a relief..cuz we only have one bed, and I would have hated to have woken up to hear, "MAN, I slept well!".
Sunday we went to a great breakfast at Western Sizzler (we couldn't remember the last time we had eaten at one of those. Maybe when it was in Williamsburg, which was about 15 years ago). Then we went between Mileposts 9 and 14 about 10 times!! We went down to Kitty Hawk Kites. And then back to 17th Street Surf Shop. Then to another surf shop (in search of Reefs for DH). Then BACK to Kitty Hawk Kites to get me some Crocs (greens ones...so incredibly comfortable). Then back to 17th Street to get the pair of Reefs DH really wanted (which happened to have a bottle opener on the bottom of each flip-flop. As they say in the Guiness commericals, "BRILLANT").
Then it was back to VA, for a long week (semester).
We did sit on the beach Saturday night. It was incredibly breezy, and a little chilly. But it was perfect. The beach was empty. And we just watched the clouds and the moon and the waves. Incredible.
A few pictures:
Can't wait to go back. Maybe we can make this a yearly trip!?
The First Student Teaching Post
Yay!
Student Teaching (ST) is going INCREDIBLY well. Better than I expected, actually. I had never taught anything besides 2-3 year old Sunday School. So I was a little apprehensive going into the classroom. I knew there would be expectations (grad student/William and Mary). I knew that I wasn't a very social person, therefore I thought meeting people would be hard for me. I had never been in the school that I was ST in.
BUT...it has been great. I have met people very easily (hopefully it's me, and I'm getting through some of those social "problems"...but more than likely, it's the awesome teachers at Stonehouse Elementary!). The two teachers we work closest with (2nd grade and 3rd grade general education teachers) are amazing. Each one has a great outlook on teaching, as well as life. You can just tell that they love their jobs. My Cooperating Teacher (Kathleen) is amazing as well. She knows her special ed, I can tell you that! Meeting people has not been a problem.
I have an excitement about me each morning that I don't know where it's coming from. I am actually waking up before my alarm (almost an hour before this morning). I am getting there, ready to go!
The kids are wonderful! Kathleen has 16 kids on her case load (that's a lot for a case load). We're in a tiny resource room, but they manage.
I absorb my first subject tomorrow: Phonics ('fä-niks) It's pretty much a direct instruction piece (where I just read from a book and just go in the order they suggest). But it will be mine! Then I'll absorb one subject each week. Until finally, I am teaching everything. Then I'll teach full time for about 2 1/2 weeks (around Thanksgiving).
1 week down. 9 weeks to go.
Student Teaching (ST) is going INCREDIBLY well. Better than I expected, actually. I had never taught anything besides 2-3 year old Sunday School. So I was a little apprehensive going into the classroom. I knew there would be expectations (grad student/William and Mary). I knew that I wasn't a very social person, therefore I thought meeting people would be hard for me. I had never been in the school that I was ST in.
BUT...it has been great. I have met people very easily (hopefully it's me, and I'm getting through some of those social "problems"...but more than likely, it's the awesome teachers at Stonehouse Elementary!). The two teachers we work closest with (2nd grade and 3rd grade general education teachers) are amazing. Each one has a great outlook on teaching, as well as life. You can just tell that they love their jobs. My Cooperating Teacher (Kathleen) is amazing as well. She knows her special ed, I can tell you that! Meeting people has not been a problem.
I have an excitement about me each morning that I don't know where it's coming from. I am actually waking up before my alarm (almost an hour before this morning). I am getting there, ready to go!
The kids are wonderful! Kathleen has 16 kids on her case load (that's a lot for a case load). We're in a tiny resource room, but they manage.
I absorb my first subject tomorrow: Phonics ('fä-niks) It's pretty much a direct instruction piece (where I just read from a book and just go in the order they suggest). But it will be mine! Then I'll absorb one subject each week. Until finally, I am teaching everything. Then I'll teach full time for about 2 1/2 weeks (around Thanksgiving).
1 week down. 9 weeks to go.
Tuesday, October 2, 2007
I think I may have found my sub-calling...
Working with kids with ED (Emotional Disturbance) and Behavior problems.
Now I may not be ANY good at it AT ALL. But something feels right about it.
I visited a day school for these students this morning. It was just to be an observation of what ED looks like for my independent study.
The federal definition of ED is:
"...a condition exhibiting one or more of the following characteristics over a long period of time and to a marked degree that adversely affects a child's educational performance--
(A) An inability to learn that cannot be explained by intellectual, sensory, or health factors.
(B) An inability to build or maintain satisfactory interpersonal relationships with peers and teachers.
(C) Inappropriate types of behavior or feelings under normal circumstances.
(D) A general pervasive mood of unhappiness or depression.
(E) A tendency to develop physical symptoms or fears associated with personal or school problems." [Code of Federal Regulations, Title 34, Section 300.7(c)(4)(i)]
As defined by the IDEA, emotional disturbance includes schizophrenia but does not apply to children who are socially maladjusted, unless it is determined that they have an emotional disturbance. [Code of Federal Regulation, Title 34, Section 300.7(c)(4)(ii)]
To give you a picture of this particular school:
They had about 45 students (mostly male), the doors to the classrooms were locked, they had four time-out rooms (which they called "the box", basically a plywood walled room with a separate "cell" that can be locked if they are too uncontrollable), three adults per classroom (one content teacher and two mental health counselors for behavior control) and every child had to be kept up with.
Sounds exactly like the place where I wouldn't want to go. But for some reason, I just felt "right" there.
It would probably be like throwing me to the wolves over there, but I want to give it a try.
There's a chance of student teaching there. We'll see how that goes.
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In similar news, I start student teaching at the elementary school tomorrow! No more sleeping in. No more afternoon naps. No more of that. For 10 weeks. I'll get some time off for Thanksgiving...but that's about it.
2nd and 3rd graders...that don't have NEAR the problems of the kids I saw today. This is going to be simple!
Now I may not be ANY good at it AT ALL. But something feels right about it.
I visited a day school for these students this morning. It was just to be an observation of what ED looks like for my independent study.
The federal definition of ED is:
"...a condition exhibiting one or more of the following characteristics over a long period of time and to a marked degree that adversely affects a child's educational performance--
(A) An inability to learn that cannot be explained by intellectual, sensory, or health factors.
(B) An inability to build or maintain satisfactory interpersonal relationships with peers and teachers.
(C) Inappropriate types of behavior or feelings under normal circumstances.
(D) A general pervasive mood of unhappiness or depression.
(E) A tendency to develop physical symptoms or fears associated with personal or school problems." [Code of Federal Regulations, Title 34, Section 300.7(c)(4)(i)]
As defined by the IDEA, emotional disturbance includes schizophrenia but does not apply to children who are socially maladjusted, unless it is determined that they have an emotional disturbance. [Code of Federal Regulation, Title 34, Section 300.7(c)(4)(ii)]
To give you a picture of this particular school:
They had about 45 students (mostly male), the doors to the classrooms were locked, they had four time-out rooms (which they called "the box", basically a plywood walled room with a separate "cell" that can be locked if they are too uncontrollable), three adults per classroom (one content teacher and two mental health counselors for behavior control) and every child had to be kept up with.
Sounds exactly like the place where I wouldn't want to go. But for some reason, I just felt "right" there.
It would probably be like throwing me to the wolves over there, but I want to give it a try.
There's a chance of student teaching there. We'll see how that goes.
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In similar news, I start student teaching at the elementary school tomorrow! No more sleeping in. No more afternoon naps. No more of that. For 10 weeks. I'll get some time off for Thanksgiving...but that's about it.
2nd and 3rd graders...that don't have NEAR the problems of the kids I saw today. This is going to be simple!
Friday, September 28, 2007
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Sunday, September 23, 2007
And a wedding
Stephen and I had the privilege of attending the wedding of a friend of mine from high school. Heather was a gorgeous bride and Mike was a handsome groom. They had their ceremony outside (and who would have imagined the temperatures reaching almost 90 degrees on the second to last weekend in September?!) It was so beautiful though. A short and simple ceremony with vows and the exchange of rings.
The pastor who married them said a short piece about marriage being all about choices. Each person in the union has choices. They can use how they speak and what actions they take. And when you are married, you have to remember that your choices impact the other's life. So be careful of what you say and what you do towards you spouse. It was a nice reminder for those of us who were married in the audience. How many times do I not choose my words wisely as to not hurt my husband? How often do I choose not to say something that would have been truly important and vital to our relationship? Choices.
Then they had the reception at the indoor reception hall at Fine Creek Mill (where they had the ceremony). We each sat at tables named after a place in Italy (Oh I didn't mention that the groomsmen were in tuxes that made them look like Al Capone replicas! Long black coats. Silver ties. Black hats with a white band above the brim which was tilted down on one side. LONG chain one one side of the pants. The guys were definitely stylin'). And we ate salad, chicken Parmesan, a tomato dish, pasta, roast beef, green beans, rolls. Of course we danced (only slow songs for the me and the hubby). We sat with the Conrad's, Williams', Ward's and another couple from Jersey. Those other three families were around when I was in high school and college. They were the ones who always got together for everything, along with the bride's parents. I have some fond memories of that bunch!!
We had such a great time!! Heather looked SO VERY excited to be getting married. So did Mike. They smashed the cake in each other's faces in a totally loving way. (As a side note, I usually hate when they smash the cake. It always looks like they have some pent up anger or resentment they are getting out. But not this time).
I cannot wait to see pictures! They used the same photographer as we did. He's such a nice guy.
This was the first wedding where Stephen and I got to sit there and sort of reflect on our wedding as we watched, and even renew/remember the commitment we made to each other a mere 10 months ago. The future holds many other weddings for us, I am sure. And at each one, I hope we remember back to that 18th day of November when we made similar commitments.
The pastor who married them said a short piece about marriage being all about choices. Each person in the union has choices. They can use how they speak and what actions they take. And when you are married, you have to remember that your choices impact the other's life. So be careful of what you say and what you do towards you spouse. It was a nice reminder for those of us who were married in the audience. How many times do I not choose my words wisely as to not hurt my husband? How often do I choose not to say something that would have been truly important and vital to our relationship? Choices.
Then they had the reception at the indoor reception hall at Fine Creek Mill (where they had the ceremony). We each sat at tables named after a place in Italy (Oh I didn't mention that the groomsmen were in tuxes that made them look like Al Capone replicas! Long black coats. Silver ties. Black hats with a white band above the brim which was tilted down on one side. LONG chain one one side of the pants. The guys were definitely stylin'). And we ate salad, chicken Parmesan, a tomato dish, pasta, roast beef, green beans, rolls. Of course we danced (only slow songs for the me and the hubby). We sat with the Conrad's, Williams', Ward's and another couple from Jersey. Those other three families were around when I was in high school and college. They were the ones who always got together for everything, along with the bride's parents. I have some fond memories of that bunch!!
We had such a great time!! Heather looked SO VERY excited to be getting married. So did Mike. They smashed the cake in each other's faces in a totally loving way. (As a side note, I usually hate when they smash the cake. It always looks like they have some pent up anger or resentment they are getting out. But not this time).
I cannot wait to see pictures! They used the same photographer as we did. He's such a nice guy.
This was the first wedding where Stephen and I got to sit there and sort of reflect on our wedding as we watched, and even renew/remember the commitment we made to each other a mere 10 months ago. The future holds many other weddings for us, I am sure. And at each one, I hope we remember back to that 18th day of November when we made similar commitments.
Final Commendation and Farewell
This is the song we sang at the end of Mrs. Funigiello's funeral. It's called "Song of Farewell" and it's tune is Old 100th (not sure what that means).
It is sang to to the tune of the Doxology.
Come to hear aid O Saints of God;
Come meet her, angels of the Lord.
Receive her soul, O holy ones;
Present her now to God, most high.
May Christ who called you take, you home,
And angels lead you to Abraham.
Receive her soul, O holy ones;
Present her now to God, most high.
Give her eternal rest, O Lord.
May light unending shine on her.
Receive her soul, O holy ones;
Present her nowt to God, most high.
I know that my Redeemer live;
The last day I shall rise again.
Receive her soul, O holy ones;
Present her now to God, most high.
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I just felt completion when I sang that song. Her life was complete. She had come full circle. And we, as friends and family, were able to "give her back" to where she first came from.
I hope to keep this program around, so that I may use this at my funeral one day.
It is sang to to the tune of the Doxology.
Come to hear aid O Saints of God;
Come meet her, angels of the Lord.
Receive her soul, O holy ones;
Present her now to God, most high.
May Christ who called you take, you home,
And angels lead you to Abraham.
Receive her soul, O holy ones;
Present her now to God, most high.
Give her eternal rest, O Lord.
May light unending shine on her.
Receive her soul, O holy ones;
Present her nowt to God, most high.
I know that my Redeemer live;
The last day I shall rise again.
Receive her soul, O holy ones;
Present her now to God, most high.
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I just felt completion when I sang that song. Her life was complete. She had come full circle. And we, as friends and family, were able to "give her back" to where she first came from.
I hope to keep this program around, so that I may use this at my funeral one day.
Saturday, September 22, 2007
An essay on a Catholic Funeral Mass
Don't judge what you don't know.
Period.
That's the first thing I learned.
Second thing I learned: Liturgy is pretty neat when you think about it. Coming TOGETHER to proclaim something to the Lord as a group.
Now, I am off to a wedding. Earlier today, I saw a marriage ended (by death), and this afternoon, I am seeing a marriage begin. Talk about the circle of life!
More to come on the funeral. Thoughts, and a great song to end the mass will be posted.
Period.
That's the first thing I learned.
Second thing I learned: Liturgy is pretty neat when you think about it. Coming TOGETHER to proclaim something to the Lord as a group.
Now, I am off to a wedding. Earlier today, I saw a marriage ended (by death), and this afternoon, I am seeing a marriage begin. Talk about the circle of life!
More to come on the funeral. Thoughts, and a great song to end the mass will be posted.
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
So what have I been doing with my time off....
Well...not a whole lot. It's actually quite boring.
I did get a bunch of work done for my math lab and a few things done for my other class that first week I have off. The second week, I did NOTHING. Zero school work. This week, I have written a paper that's due tonight. And I've been to the library a couple of times, got my oil changed, and went to the grocery store.
Tonight I have class.
Friday, I am meeting my Cooperating Teacher for student teaching (exciting!) and then going on a homeschool field trip with a friend from church. We're going to Jamestown Settlement. Yipee!! Then maybe some kayaking that afternoon. We'll see what Katrina is up to!
Gosh September is almost over. Amazing how time flies. Stephen and I have been married for 10 months now. Seems like just yesterday I was still planning which napkins to use. And then other days, it does seem like we've been married awhile. Not just when things are bad, but when things are just awesome! And when I think about the depth in which we know each other. And we haven't even known each other for three years yet. Wow. That puts it into perspective.
Ok, enough about my boring life.
I did get a bunch of work done for my math lab and a few things done for my other class that first week I have off. The second week, I did NOTHING. Zero school work. This week, I have written a paper that's due tonight. And I've been to the library a couple of times, got my oil changed, and went to the grocery store.
Tonight I have class.
Friday, I am meeting my Cooperating Teacher for student teaching (exciting!) and then going on a homeschool field trip with a friend from church. We're going to Jamestown Settlement. Yipee!! Then maybe some kayaking that afternoon. We'll see what Katrina is up to!
Gosh September is almost over. Amazing how time flies. Stephen and I have been married for 10 months now. Seems like just yesterday I was still planning which napkins to use. And then other days, it does seem like we've been married awhile. Not just when things are bad, but when things are just awesome! And when I think about the depth in which we know each other. And we haven't even known each other for three years yet. Wow. That puts it into perspective.
Ok, enough about my boring life.
The Juice
This O.J. Simpson thing cracks me up. I find myself giggling every time it comes up.
The reason I laugh (I think) is because I think it would be HILARIOUS and very forthcoming, if OJ went to jail for life for these felony accounts.
--Oh you can get off for murder, but armed robbery. No way. We take things like that seriously in my courtroom--
Today's news report said that he could face up to 30 years in prison per account. (I think it's up to seven or so felony counts now).
The justice in that situation kills me.
Plus, where are you going to find an unbiased jury? I guess there could be someone somewhere who doesn't remember his first run in with the law. It's like John Maddon said one night last season on Monday Night Football. "If you're AT ALL familiar with what happened on September 11th in 2001, you know what kind of hardships the Jets have faced." (or something to that effect).
WHAT?? IF we are familiar? Funniest thing I have ever heard said.
(Well that...and then last night while watching "Blades of Glory", the hubby blurted out, "That is so ripped off from the move in 'The Cutting Edge' " HAHAHAHAHA. I've never seen "The Cutting Edge", but I think it's a chick-flick to the max! It was so funny hearing that come out of his mouth!)
Give OJ what he deserves. In my opinion, it's life in prison. But I am not the justice system, nor God. Soooo....I just hope he gets all of that he deserves.
The reason I laugh (I think) is because I think it would be HILARIOUS and very forthcoming, if OJ went to jail for life for these felony accounts.
--Oh you can get off for murder, but armed robbery. No way. We take things like that seriously in my courtroom--
Today's news report said that he could face up to 30 years in prison per account. (I think it's up to seven or so felony counts now).
The justice in that situation kills me.
Plus, where are you going to find an unbiased jury? I guess there could be someone somewhere who doesn't remember his first run in with the law. It's like John Maddon said one night last season on Monday Night Football. "If you're AT ALL familiar with what happened on September 11th in 2001, you know what kind of hardships the Jets have faced." (or something to that effect).
WHAT?? IF we are familiar? Funniest thing I have ever heard said.
(Well that...and then last night while watching "Blades of Glory", the hubby blurted out, "That is so ripped off from the move in 'The Cutting Edge' " HAHAHAHAHA. I've never seen "The Cutting Edge", but I think it's a chick-flick to the max! It was so funny hearing that come out of his mouth!)
Give OJ what he deserves. In my opinion, it's life in prison. But I am not the justice system, nor God. Soooo....I just hope he gets all of that he deserves.
Sunday, September 9, 2007
Saturday, September 8, 2007
I'm in the middle of an assignment....
But I just had to blog about our neighbor.
Now he's a really nice guy.
BUT...his favorite music is TECHNO/DANCE/CLUB/RAVE.
Yep, you heard me right.
And right now, I am in the computer room (one window facing his house) and I can hear e.v.e.r.y s.i.n.g.l.e lyric.
The blind is closed...but as I sit here, wading through an article about using graphic organizers in math with students with disablities, I half expect to yank open the blinds and see a 30+ year old man DANCING HIS LITTLE HEART OUT. Full on club dancing too.
And he never plays anything else. Cross my heart.
Nothing. else.
'tis fun living in a neighborhood.
Back to graphic organizers.
Now he's a really nice guy.
BUT...his favorite music is TECHNO/DANCE/CLUB/RAVE.
Yep, you heard me right.
And right now, I am in the computer room (one window facing his house) and I can hear e.v.e.r.y s.i.n.g.l.e lyric.
The blind is closed...but as I sit here, wading through an article about using graphic organizers in math with students with disablities, I half expect to yank open the blinds and see a 30+ year old man DANCING HIS LITTLE HEART OUT. Full on club dancing too.
And he never plays anything else. Cross my heart.
Nothing. else.
'tis fun living in a neighborhood.
Back to graphic organizers.
Friday, September 7, 2007
Busch, How I love thee
Tonight we're going (on free tickets) to the Busch Race at Richmond International Raceway.
Go #20 Denny Hamlin!!
Go #20 Denny Hamlin!!
WARNING: CONTAINS MILK
I just ate a Junior STUFFED Beetlejuice from Sno-to-Go.
STUFF= Ice cream on top and in the middle layer (ice cream, flavored sno, ice cream, flavored sno).
News flash: I'm allergic to milk.
Well it was an accident that they put the ice cream in the middle, cuz I definitely asked for just ice cream on TOP.
And of course, what did I do?? Was I responsible and scrape the ice cream out of the cup before eating the rest of the sno....NO. I ate it.
I think I should have taken a Benedryl when I got home.
We shall see tomorrow the effects.
STUFF= Ice cream on top and in the middle layer (ice cream, flavored sno, ice cream, flavored sno).
News flash: I'm allergic to milk.
Well it was an accident that they put the ice cream in the middle, cuz I definitely asked for just ice cream on TOP.
And of course, what did I do?? Was I responsible and scrape the ice cream out of the cup before eating the rest of the sno....NO. I ate it.
I think I should have taken a Benedryl when I got home.
We shall see tomorrow the effects.
Wednesday, September 5, 2007
A Wedding
I had to gather my thoughts about this past weekend. So that's why the wedding blog has been a long time in the coming.
The wedding was A-M-A-Z-I-N-G. We had such a good time. Katie was a gorgeous bride, and Billy was a handsome groom.
The reception was beautiful. Marlo, Sharon and Robin did a great job with the music. The food was excellent. The send off was great...sparklers lined the driveway.
They are in Colorado now, enjoying the fruits of their labor.
Katie and Billy---I'm so happy for you guys!! You're been through a lot and have managed to make the best of it all. I have no doubt that you guys will have a great marriage because it's based on Christ's love. I'm so proud you guys for waiting on God's timing and were able to give and receive the greatest wedding present ever: each other. Too awesome how God has planned out things perfectly!
The wedding was A-M-A-Z-I-N-G. We had such a good time. Katie was a gorgeous bride, and Billy was a handsome groom.
The reception was beautiful. Marlo, Sharon and Robin did a great job with the music. The food was excellent. The send off was great...sparklers lined the driveway.
They are in Colorado now, enjoying the fruits of their labor.
Katie and Billy---I'm so happy for you guys!! You're been through a lot and have managed to make the best of it all. I have no doubt that you guys will have a great marriage because it's based on Christ's love. I'm so proud you guys for waiting on God's timing and were able to give and receive the greatest wedding present ever: each other. Too awesome how God has planned out things perfectly!
Wednesday, August 29, 2007
Splitting headaches and classes
That's what I have.
Today, classes start. I have one on Wednesdays, one on Thursdays, and one every other Wednesday (which hopefully doesn't start this week!!)
I'm taking a general curriculum class, how to teach math to special ed kids, and the emotion disorders theory class. Should be a good semester! Plus I have student teaching. More on that when I find out where I am being placed!
Splitting headaches are no fun...I've had one every afternoon for the past three days. This afternoon is no exception. Wish they would just go away. I'm sure I'm eating enough. Maybe I need to drink more water. Something has to got to GIVE!
Today, classes start. I have one on Wednesdays, one on Thursdays, and one every other Wednesday (which hopefully doesn't start this week!!)
I'm taking a general curriculum class, how to teach math to special ed kids, and the emotion disorders theory class. Should be a good semester! Plus I have student teaching. More on that when I find out where I am being placed!
Splitting headaches are no fun...I've had one every afternoon for the past three days. This afternoon is no exception. Wish they would just go away. I'm sure I'm eating enough. Maybe I need to drink more water. Something has to got to GIVE!
PS. Do not type in "headache" into images.google.com. The first picture is NOT pretty.
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
MOH is getting married
In 4 days, my friend, The Funny, Gulfstream-Employeed, Always-Late Katie Beck, will be marrying the man of her dreams, Billy Steele.
4 DAYS
it reminds me of a movie quote:
The Impressive Clergyman: Mawage. Mawage is wot bwings us togeder tooday. Mawage, that bwessed awangment, that dweam wifin a dweam... [cut to Westley, Inigo, and Fezzik]. And wuv, tru wuv, will fowow you foweva... [cut to the trio again]. So tweasure your wuv.
4 DAYS
it reminds me of a movie quote:
The Impressive Clergyman: Mawage. Mawage is wot bwings us togeder tooday. Mawage, that bwessed awangment, that dweam wifin a dweam... [cut to Westley, Inigo, and Fezzik]. And wuv, tru wuv, will fowow you foweva... [cut to the trio again]. So tweasure your wuv.
Prince Humperdinck: Skip to the end.
The Impressive Clergyman: Have you the wing? [cut to the trio once more]
The Impressive Clergyman: ...and do you,Pwincess Buwwercup...
Prince Humperdinck: Man and wife. Say man and wife.
The Impressive Clergyman: Man an' wife.
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So excited for you guys!!
Saturday, August 25, 2007
Friday, August 24, 2007
Wednesday, August 22, 2007
A new faviorte thing....
I enjoy putting on my make-up in the mornings. It has never been something I do "because I HAVE to" or begrudgingly. I just like to do it.
But I have never liked one particular part of the process (yes, I do it in a certain order, or I will inevitably forget one part) until I bought this:
I LOVE this mascara. I look forward to my last step every morning now.
Thank you, Katie, for reminding me that I wanted to try this product!!
But I have never liked one particular part of the process (yes, I do it in a certain order, or I will inevitably forget one part) until I bought this:
I LOVE this mascara. I look forward to my last step every morning now.
Thank you, Katie, for reminding me that I wanted to try this product!!
Monday, August 20, 2007
A funny from the FIL
My father-in-law works at Anheuser-Busch (with my dad). It's mainly men who work there and they are always ragging on each other. David told us yesterday, that a guy he works with is Hispanic (with a long, ultra hispanic name to go with it). Anyways, this other guy is always picking on him about Mexicans and coming across the border and all. So David (my FIL) asked him the other night if he was still picking on Gil. And he said, "yep, in fact, I working on getting a t-shirt made that says, 'Let my people mow.'"
all you need is love
I was thinking on the five love languages today. And I was thinking about the gift giving love language. (which also happens to be my love language). And I remember Stephen asking me one time, "how often do I need to give you a "gift"? And that's a fair question...I, of course, in fear of being laughed at said something like, "umm...maybe once a week...uh, twice if that's too much for you".
And I always get burned with that. Because I feel I need it more.
So today I was thinking about how to "justify" needing it spoken to me daily to every other daily. (I know, I know...I don't need to justify it....I've got more problems than I have space in this blog for!) But I was thinking about the physical touch language. And if someone who had that as their language..only got non-sexual physical touch once a week...they would be going CRAZY. And so shouldn't it be the same with any of the other love languages?? They need to be spoken, and spoken often.
I have often felt guilty because of my love language. I wish I was physical touch, because that one is SO easy. Or words of encouragement. But gift giving. ARG! I think it's an easy one...but that's because I find it easy to give "gifts" often. A message on a mirror here, a note under your pillow here, a little something from the grocery store when I go. But I don't think this is an easy one for most people who aren't gift givers.
Just an interesting thought.
And I always get burned with that. Because I feel I need it more.
So today I was thinking about how to "justify" needing it spoken to me daily to every other daily. (I know, I know...I don't need to justify it....I've got more problems than I have space in this blog for!) But I was thinking about the physical touch language. And if someone who had that as their language..only got non-sexual physical touch once a week...they would be going CRAZY. And so shouldn't it be the same with any of the other love languages?? They need to be spoken, and spoken often.
I have often felt guilty because of my love language. I wish I was physical touch, because that one is SO easy. Or words of encouragement. But gift giving. ARG! I think it's an easy one...but that's because I find it easy to give "gifts" often. A message on a mirror here, a note under your pillow here, a little something from the grocery store when I go. But I don't think this is an easy one for most people who aren't gift givers.
Just an interesting thought.
a silent experience
No, I wasn't giving birth the Scientology way.
I was actually at the library. And upon self-scanning the books I was checking out, I realized that I had come into the library, looked for the Fiction V section, looked for the Biography section, looked at DVDs, and checked out my two books without uttering a single word!
That's right. No, 'hi', or 'excuse me', or 'thank you' was heard from me. No one spoke to me, and I did not speak to anyone either.
I am all for automatising of anything possible!! I think it's great to utilize technology to be more productive (I didn't have to wait in the long check-out line, and they had more time to spend on the long line, since I wasn't in it....I checked my books out with the self-checkout system).
But there comes a point, where a little human contact is completely necessary for the well being of a person.
It worked well for me today, since I don't talk much anyways, and don't mind "being alone". But what if someone very social went in there.........well...they probably wouldn't have chosen the self-checkout to ensure that they had human contact during their visit.
I was actually at the library. And upon self-scanning the books I was checking out, I realized that I had come into the library, looked for the Fiction V section, looked for the Biography section, looked at DVDs, and checked out my two books without uttering a single word!
That's right. No, 'hi', or 'excuse me', or 'thank you' was heard from me. No one spoke to me, and I did not speak to anyone either.
I am all for automatising of anything possible!! I think it's great to utilize technology to be more productive (I didn't have to wait in the long check-out line, and they had more time to spend on the long line, since I wasn't in it....I checked my books out with the self-checkout system).
But there comes a point, where a little human contact is completely necessary for the well being of a person.
It worked well for me today, since I don't talk much anyways, and don't mind "being alone". But what if someone very social went in there.........well...they probably wouldn't have chosen the self-checkout to ensure that they had human contact during their visit.
Monday, August 13, 2007
An expose on traffic lights
In the recent years, driving in our small town has become more and more "bad". We, of course, know why that is....tourists. But this past year, one particular traffic violation has been on the increase.
That violation is : RUNNING RED LIGHTS.
It's nothing anymore to see three-five cars still in the intersection when your light turns green. EXCUSE ME? I can understand that one car that goes through a yellow light. No worries...that's what yellow lights are for. BUT THREE? AFTER GREEN??
If I understand correctly (from my own observations), once the light turns red...there are a few seconds before the next light turns green. Right? And I assume that is for the one car that crosses the line after the light has turned yellow....in order for them to get through the intersection. And that time between red on one side and green on the other varies from intersection to intersection based on the size of said intersection. (ie. The intersection of 199 and Monticello Ave. is much much bigger than the light from Mooretown Road to Route 60.)
Now, in Williamsburg, it's not at EVERY light. It's mainly at the Lightfoot Road/Richmond Road intersection, the Mooretown Road/Richmond Road, and occasionally the Centerville Road/Richmond Road one. The Lightfoot Road light is BY FAR the worst of the three. I would venture to guess that probably 9 out of 10 times there are multiple cars still crossing the intersection when the straight light turns green.
This is simply uncalled for. There is no reason for people not to follow the traffic light laws.
Except for my other tirade...complete inconsideration of others in today's society.
I am driving MY car...and I have to get some place. Therefore, it's not important that others are driving on the same roads with you. Rules do not apply to you (apparently).
I was standing the very congested Cheese Shoppe this weekend. I was holding my purse around my front because I didn't want to bump into anyone as they went to get their drink ( I was standing in front of the drinks cooler). When this lady comes up with a cute little Vera backpack...gets her drink...and proceeds to turn around to leave, hitting me with her backpack. She was totally unfazed. Nevermind there were people around her. She needed a drink. And it just didn't matter.
Sometimes I wish I were oblivious of my surrounds. Just go about MY business without considering my surrounds. It would make life more enjoyable I think. My own little world.
I think that would be called "Sheer happiness". Caring for others is just too much work. It's a downer.
Every man is an island....or at least that's what they think in Williamsburg, VA.
Ok, that's enough. I care about people and always will. And I will always be aware of my surrounds unless it's by mistake I overlook something.
I would just like to know that driving through an intersection is semi-safe. (Not to mention I almost pegged a Lexus when she ran a red light in Colonial Williamsburg this past weekend too. LOOK ALIVE PEOPLE!)
That violation is : RUNNING RED LIGHTS.
It's nothing anymore to see three-five cars still in the intersection when your light turns green. EXCUSE ME? I can understand that one car that goes through a yellow light. No worries...that's what yellow lights are for. BUT THREE? AFTER GREEN??
If I understand correctly (from my own observations), once the light turns red...there are a few seconds before the next light turns green. Right? And I assume that is for the one car that crosses the line after the light has turned yellow....in order for them to get through the intersection. And that time between red on one side and green on the other varies from intersection to intersection based on the size of said intersection. (ie. The intersection of 199 and Monticello Ave. is much much bigger than the light from Mooretown Road to Route 60.)
Now, in Williamsburg, it's not at EVERY light. It's mainly at the Lightfoot Road/Richmond Road intersection, the Mooretown Road/Richmond Road, and occasionally the Centerville Road/Richmond Road one. The Lightfoot Road light is BY FAR the worst of the three. I would venture to guess that probably 9 out of 10 times there are multiple cars still crossing the intersection when the straight light turns green.
This is simply uncalled for. There is no reason for people not to follow the traffic light laws.
Except for my other tirade...complete inconsideration of others in today's society.
I am driving MY car...and I have to get some place. Therefore, it's not important that others are driving on the same roads with you. Rules do not apply to you (apparently).
I was standing the very congested Cheese Shoppe this weekend. I was holding my purse around my front because I didn't want to bump into anyone as they went to get their drink ( I was standing in front of the drinks cooler). When this lady comes up with a cute little Vera backpack...gets her drink...and proceeds to turn around to leave, hitting me with her backpack. She was totally unfazed. Nevermind there were people around her. She needed a drink. And it just didn't matter.
Sometimes I wish I were oblivious of my surrounds. Just go about MY business without considering my surrounds. It would make life more enjoyable I think. My own little world.
I think that would be called "Sheer happiness". Caring for others is just too much work. It's a downer.
Every man is an island....or at least that's what they think in Williamsburg, VA.
Ok, that's enough. I care about people and always will. And I will always be aware of my surrounds unless it's by mistake I overlook something.
I would just like to know that driving through an intersection is semi-safe. (Not to mention I almost pegged a Lexus when she ran a red light in Colonial Williamsburg this past weekend too. LOOK ALIVE PEOPLE!)
Saturday, August 11, 2007
Master wire stripper
That's me!
Stephen and I have successfully installed and are connected to high-speed Internet from Cox. It took some higher level thinking to figure out just how they had wired this house back when it was built. The people before us has a cable hook up in the living room (although mighty ghetto....as it came into the house through the side of the house with duct tape over the hole...sketchy) and then one in the master bedroom. But we found, while we were painting, cable routed into both of the other bedrooms. It just wasn't capped off. So, one trip to Radio Shack and I had successfully capped off the cable in the middle bedroom. BUT, the modem wouldn't connect. So we traced the cable lines through the ceiling and into the attic and then down into the garage....only to find out that the OTHER end of the cable was just loose ends. So we went back to Radio Shack and got a splitter and more end caps. Came home, stripped some wire and away we went.
So here I am. o-n-l-i-n-e.
But here's what I was thinking about during this process.
Stephen and I started off our marriage without the Internet in the house. So that made us spend lots of time together in the evenings watching TV or going places. And even though we had been without for so long....last night when it was hooked up, I checked my email to check the connection....and then we turned the computer off and watched "The Bourne Supremacy". It was great. I think we've taught ourselves to spend time with each other, rather than all of our time on the computer. I have heard stories of couples where one or the other is constantly on the computer and never has time to spend with the other. I think that is truly sad. I think that the invention of laptops and wireless Internet is great. Then they can spend time together, and be online at the same time. Another great example is our friends the Price's. They have their computer in a bonus room with a TV and couch and chair. That way, they can spend time together, even if one is online doing work, or whatever.
Well Stephen is over at Shawn's helping him out with his out. I think that I am going to run down to Colonial Williamsburg and go to the farmer's market. I might even be able to talk someone into getting Cheese Shop with me for lunch. Yum.
Well signing off at my very own house on our very own new Dell Window's Vista computer.
Stephen and I have successfully installed and are connected to high-speed Internet from Cox. It took some higher level thinking to figure out just how they had wired this house back when it was built. The people before us has a cable hook up in the living room (although mighty ghetto....as it came into the house through the side of the house with duct tape over the hole...sketchy) and then one in the master bedroom. But we found, while we were painting, cable routed into both of the other bedrooms. It just wasn't capped off. So, one trip to Radio Shack and I had successfully capped off the cable in the middle bedroom. BUT, the modem wouldn't connect. So we traced the cable lines through the ceiling and into the attic and then down into the garage....only to find out that the OTHER end of the cable was just loose ends. So we went back to Radio Shack and got a splitter and more end caps. Came home, stripped some wire and away we went.
So here I am. o-n-l-i-n-e.
But here's what I was thinking about during this process.
Stephen and I started off our marriage without the Internet in the house. So that made us spend lots of time together in the evenings watching TV or going places. And even though we had been without for so long....last night when it was hooked up, I checked my email to check the connection....and then we turned the computer off and watched "The Bourne Supremacy". It was great. I think we've taught ourselves to spend time with each other, rather than all of our time on the computer. I have heard stories of couples where one or the other is constantly on the computer and never has time to spend with the other. I think that is truly sad. I think that the invention of laptops and wireless Internet is great. Then they can spend time together, and be online at the same time. Another great example is our friends the Price's. They have their computer in a bonus room with a TV and couch and chair. That way, they can spend time together, even if one is online doing work, or whatever.
Well Stephen is over at Shawn's helping him out with his out. I think that I am going to run down to Colonial Williamsburg and go to the farmer's market. I might even be able to talk someone into getting Cheese Shop with me for lunch. Yum.
Well signing off at my very own house on our very own new Dell Window's Vista computer.
Wednesday, August 8, 2007
My sincerest apologies
Sorry it's been so long. There just hasn't been anything to post on.
Check out the current post on the Truth in Love blog (link to the right) about The Cross. Awesome post, Jeff.
I saw an annual meeting of bloggers on C-SPAN the other day. Bet that's interesting.
Stephen and I bought a new computer and we hooked that bad boy up last night. It has Windows Vista...and it's actually pretty cool. It's VERY much like a Mac in regards to the looks. Pretty easy to maneuver. We have a DVD burner on it, so I am super excited about making slide shows and maybe even movies one day!! I will probably make a DVD of our honeymoon pictures and probably even our wedding pictures. Oh the fun will never end. Guess I'll need to buy some blank DVD-R's today at the grocery store (arg, I despise the grocery store...I have been dragging my feet about going this week. I guess I will HAVE to do it though)
We're finally getting the Internet at our house. (So maybe more bloggin'?? Maybe not??) Hopefully the modem will be sitting on our porch when I get home. Fingers crossed we can install it successfully the first time.
I'm learning a lot this week. Mostly the "die to self" principle. And the "you should be grateful for what you have...not sorry for what you THINK you don't have" principle. Very tough ones to learn. I prayed last night..."LORD, Take my heart from my chest and do with it what You want." Just when you think you've given your all to God, somehow you end up taking it back, sometimes without even realizing it. Oh, but He will let you know when you've done it. AND IT STINKS!!
Man, I can't believe that Katie and Billy are getting married in 23 days. (MOH: 23 DAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) I cannot wait to go to their wedding. SUPER excited.
And I cannot believe that my last day of work in Aug. 29th, 21 days from today. I've been here 2 years and 5 months. It was a good run. But now it's time to move on. And since I have the Internet at home now, it won't be as hard to pull myself away from the comforts of my job.
I might right a thought provoking post here soon. I've read some good articles on line lately...might dip into those a little further.
Check out the current post on the Truth in Love blog (link to the right) about The Cross. Awesome post, Jeff.
I saw an annual meeting of bloggers on C-SPAN the other day. Bet that's interesting.
Stephen and I bought a new computer and we hooked that bad boy up last night. It has Windows Vista...and it's actually pretty cool. It's VERY much like a Mac in regards to the looks. Pretty easy to maneuver. We have a DVD burner on it, so I am super excited about making slide shows and maybe even movies one day!! I will probably make a DVD of our honeymoon pictures and probably even our wedding pictures. Oh the fun will never end. Guess I'll need to buy some blank DVD-R's today at the grocery store (arg, I despise the grocery store...I have been dragging my feet about going this week. I guess I will HAVE to do it though)
We're finally getting the Internet at our house. (So maybe more bloggin'?? Maybe not??) Hopefully the modem will be sitting on our porch when I get home. Fingers crossed we can install it successfully the first time.
I'm learning a lot this week. Mostly the "die to self" principle. And the "you should be grateful for what you have...not sorry for what you THINK you don't have" principle. Very tough ones to learn. I prayed last night..."LORD, Take my heart from my chest and do with it what You want." Just when you think you've given your all to God, somehow you end up taking it back, sometimes without even realizing it. Oh, but He will let you know when you've done it. AND IT STINKS!!
Man, I can't believe that Katie and Billy are getting married in 23 days. (MOH: 23 DAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) I cannot wait to go to their wedding. SUPER excited.
And I cannot believe that my last day of work in Aug. 29th, 21 days from today. I've been here 2 years and 5 months. It was a good run. But now it's time to move on. And since I have the Internet at home now, it won't be as hard to pull myself away from the comforts of my job.
I might right a thought provoking post here soon. I've read some good articles on line lately...might dip into those a little further.
Friday, July 27, 2007
Monday, July 23, 2007
Wanted: a good church to attend
The weekend is Asheboro with Katie and her family has come and gone. We had a great time. And who knew that the secret to 53 years of marriage was so simple!
Katie and I went with the Francis' to an Anglican church (Christ Church in Highpoint, NC) on Sunday. I found it very interesting. They met in a rec room at a retirement community and had about 40-50 people in attendance. Everyone was very welcoming and kind (although, that might be a trait of small churches in North Carolina...While people are friendly in the churches in VA, I have never quite found a church that is as nice as the churches in NC.)
The service was like charismatic meets Episcopal. I know. And interesting combination that worked wonderfully well. It didn't feel put on. Even when we were doing responsive readings. Something else that I found incredible awesome and quite intimate was the corporate prayers. It was as if we were all standing together petitioning God's favor and thanking Him for his love, and forgiveness, and the life that we were given. It was a neat feeling. Especially when we prayed a confessional prayer together before communion. It was the first time in a LONG time that I felt as if I was truly prepared to receive communion.
I was talking with Stephen today, and I think we're itching to find a church to be a part of. I decided that I wanted to find a church that had a public, positive acknowledgment of marriage and sex. One that takes the time to focus on how awesome marriage can be and how the marriage bed should be treated. I just want a church that's more open about that.
Stephen wants a church that has a positive view of women as equals.
I want to try an Emergant church. But have no idea where to find one. I'd love to go back to an Anglican church, but again, I don't know where there is one around here. I guess I need to do a little research!
Katie and I went with the Francis' to an Anglican church (Christ Church in Highpoint, NC) on Sunday. I found it very interesting. They met in a rec room at a retirement community and had about 40-50 people in attendance. Everyone was very welcoming and kind (although, that might be a trait of small churches in North Carolina...While people are friendly in the churches in VA, I have never quite found a church that is as nice as the churches in NC.)
The service was like charismatic meets Episcopal. I know. And interesting combination that worked wonderfully well. It didn't feel put on. Even when we were doing responsive readings. Something else that I found incredible awesome and quite intimate was the corporate prayers. It was as if we were all standing together petitioning God's favor and thanking Him for his love, and forgiveness, and the life that we were given. It was a neat feeling. Especially when we prayed a confessional prayer together before communion. It was the first time in a LONG time that I felt as if I was truly prepared to receive communion.
I was talking with Stephen today, and I think we're itching to find a church to be a part of. I decided that I wanted to find a church that had a public, positive acknowledgment of marriage and sex. One that takes the time to focus on how awesome marriage can be and how the marriage bed should be treated. I just want a church that's more open about that.
Stephen wants a church that has a positive view of women as equals.
I want to try an Emergant church. But have no idea where to find one. I'd love to go back to an Anglican church, but again, I don't know where there is one around here. I guess I need to do a little research!
Friday, July 20, 2007
If you have gambling or sexual urges, please call your doctor
Nope, it wasn't a documentary about addictions. It was a commercial for a medicine to help RESTLESS LEGS SYNDROME.
Now, I've heard of the normal side effects of prescription medications, like vomiting, abdominal pain, swelling, headaches, etc. But, gambling urges? Sexual urges?
Exactly when do sexual urges become bad? Some people would love to have sexual urges again.
Potential label: Do not take this medication if you are prone to gambling.
Now, I've heard of the normal side effects of prescription medications, like vomiting, abdominal pain, swelling, headaches, etc. But, gambling urges? Sexual urges?
Exactly when do sexual urges become bad? Some people would love to have sexual urges again.
Potential label: Do not take this medication if you are prone to gambling.
Thursday, July 19, 2007
Good Wife's Guide
I'm sure everyone has read this before. But I thought I would post it along with my new picture.
"The Good Wife's Guide is a magazine article rumored to have been published in the May 13, 1955 issue of Housekeeping Monthly, describing how a "good wife" should act. The text and supposed scan of the article have been widely circulated via email. Lack of corroborating evidence has cast significant doubt on its origins.
The article intends to represent an antiquated attitude towards sexual equality that is no longer accepted." From Wikipedia.
1) Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
2) Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
3) Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
4) Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives.
5) Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper, etc and then run a dustcloth over the tables.
6)Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
7) Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and, if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer, or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.
8) Be happy to see him.
9)Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
10) Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
11) Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.
12) Your goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order, and tranquility where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.
13) Don't greet him with complaints or problems.
14) Don't complain if he's late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.
15) Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
16) Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
17) Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
18) A good wife always knows her place.
"The Good Wife's Guide is a magazine article rumored to have been published in the May 13, 1955 issue of Housekeeping Monthly, describing how a "good wife" should act. The text and supposed scan of the article have been widely circulated via email. Lack of corroborating evidence has cast significant doubt on its origins.
The article intends to represent an antiquated attitude towards sexual equality that is no longer accepted." From Wikipedia.
1) Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
2) Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
3) Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
4) Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives.
5) Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper, etc and then run a dustcloth over the tables.
6)Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
7) Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and, if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer, or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.
8) Be happy to see him.
9)Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
10) Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
11) Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.
12) Your goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order, and tranquility where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.
13) Don't greet him with complaints or problems.
14) Don't complain if he's late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.
15) Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
16) Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
17) Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
18) A good wife always knows her place.
Wednesday, July 18, 2007
There's no time for cuddling when there's a coup going on
Remember those words of wisdom from this mornings commercial for the Jean Claude VanDamm movie "Second in Command" on USA.
Stephen introduced me to the "Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles" movie last night. And I loved it!! It was actually just the right amount of cheesy-ness. Plus it was rather humorous. I think that it's a good movie for young boys to watch. Because they are not using guns, and you never see blood. It shows how to use fighting for good (ie. protecting someone from an attacker).
There just aren't enough movies out theses days that show that to young boys. Plus the language wasn't that bad. A few times Raphael said, "Damn". And that could be imitated (but that would be a good time to teach boys to not say that word). But I would just love to hear my boys running around the house saying, "Excellent", and "Cowabunga", and the like.
In music news...I rented the Elvis 30 #1s from the library and am listening to it now. Great CD.
This weekend is Katie's lingerie shower!! I'm super excited!! 1) to see Katie, 2) to give her a fun gift, 3) to see Katie. And actually I am kind of excited to make the 4 1/2 hour trip to Asheboro. I love driving on long trips!! Fill up the iPod and have some CDs on hand. Twill be good times!
Stephen introduced me to the "Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles" movie last night. And I loved it!! It was actually just the right amount of cheesy-ness. Plus it was rather humorous. I think that it's a good movie for young boys to watch. Because they are not using guns, and you never see blood. It shows how to use fighting for good (ie. protecting someone from an attacker).
There just aren't enough movies out theses days that show that to young boys. Plus the language wasn't that bad. A few times Raphael said, "Damn". And that could be imitated (but that would be a good time to teach boys to not say that word). But I would just love to hear my boys running around the house saying, "Excellent", and "Cowabunga", and the like.
In music news...I rented the Elvis 30 #1s from the library and am listening to it now. Great CD.
This weekend is Katie's lingerie shower!! I'm super excited!! 1) to see Katie, 2) to give her a fun gift, 3) to see Katie. And actually I am kind of excited to make the 4 1/2 hour trip to Asheboro. I love driving on long trips!! Fill up the iPod and have some CDs on hand. Twill be good times!
Tuesday, July 17, 2007
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Whew...that was close!
Scary stuff
"And I just want you to relax while I RIIIIIIIIIIIP the hair off of your garden!"
"ahh...that's warm"
"RIIIIIIIIIIP"
"EWWWWOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWW"
"And I just want you to relax while I RIIIIIIIIIIIP the hair off of your garden!"
"ahh...that's warm"
"RIIIIIIIIIIP"
"EWWWWOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWW"
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
"Take me to the river/put me in the water"
Oh how I love the river. Williamsburg is situated (for those of you who aren't familiar with our geography) on the upper side of the Peninsula. (Noticed I used "the" peninsula...cuz that's what it is, yo!) Virginia also have another peninsula above the Peninsula called the Northern Neck. Anyways...in Williamsburg we have several rivers including the James River, York River and the Chickahominy River. Each one meets up and eventually flows to the Chesapeake Bay and then onto the Atlantic Ocean.
This past weekend, my sister, Kristina, and I went out on her Jet Ski in the Chickahominy. We had a great time. We actually went in the James as well to see the Jamestown Ferries in action and Jamestowne Island. It was a good time.
Stephen and I watched a few movies this weekend as well. We watched "Reno 911", "Breach" and then had also rented "Letters from Iwo Jima", "Deja Vu", "Fly Boys", "TransAmerica", "Brokeback Mountain", "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest", "Life as a House".
I watched "TransAmerica" on day last week. Interesting flick. Some funny moments.
We wanted "Reno 911" on Saturday. I found it extremely hilarious, and would recommend it, but not expect everyone to find it as humorous as I did that night! It gave us some good silent laughs. You know, the ones where it's not funny enough to laugh out loud, but gives you a good chuckle!?
We watched "Breach" on Sunday afternoon. Excellent movie. Kind of a slow moving drama, but it helps that it's based on a true story. That part keeps your interest. Plus Laura Linney is a great actress. And so is that guy from "American Beauty". Ryan Phillipe...ehhh? So-so.
All in all, it was an enjoyable weekend.
And I'm going out again in my father-in-law's boat on Thursday. Do a little tubing!
This past weekend, my sister, Kristina, and I went out on her Jet Ski in the Chickahominy. We had a great time. We actually went in the James as well to see the Jamestown Ferries in action and Jamestowne Island. It was a good time.
Stephen and I watched a few movies this weekend as well. We watched "Reno 911", "Breach" and then had also rented "Letters from Iwo Jima", "Deja Vu", "Fly Boys", "TransAmerica", "Brokeback Mountain", "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest", "Life as a House".
I watched "TransAmerica" on day last week. Interesting flick. Some funny moments.
We wanted "Reno 911" on Saturday. I found it extremely hilarious, and would recommend it, but not expect everyone to find it as humorous as I did that night! It gave us some good silent laughs. You know, the ones where it's not funny enough to laugh out loud, but gives you a good chuckle!?
We watched "Breach" on Sunday afternoon. Excellent movie. Kind of a slow moving drama, but it helps that it's based on a true story. That part keeps your interest. Plus Laura Linney is a great actress. And so is that guy from "American Beauty". Ryan Phillipe...ehhh? So-so.
All in all, it was an enjoyable weekend.
And I'm going out again in my father-in-law's boat on Thursday. Do a little tubing!
Wow...China means business
China Ex-Food and Drug Chief executed
We would never see this in America.
I understand the importance of ensuring that food (pet and human), toothpaste and children's toys are safe for consumption. But execution?
Even the man involved in the worst breach in US history (See the movie "Breach" for details) has life in prison for spying for the Russians for years upon years.
China Ex-Food and Drug Chief executed
We would never see this in America.
I understand the importance of ensuring that food (pet and human), toothpaste and children's toys are safe for consumption. But execution?
Even the man involved in the worst breach in US history (See the movie "Breach" for details) has life in prison for spying for the Russians for years upon years.
Thursday, July 5, 2007
Is this an ethical issue? Or not?
Mother Donates Eggs to Infertile Daughter is the headline
You can read through the whole story here.
Technically, this child may give birth to her half-sister or half-brother.
The child is only 7 years old right now, but has a genetic disorder (Turner's Syndrome) which usually means infertility. And the mom (mid-30's healthy and fertile) has frozen 20 eggs for her daughter to use down the road.
Does this fall into ethical/morality issues? Because I'm not really sure?! But it did strike me as odd... and I got that "hmm...something's fishy" feeling in my tummy when I read it.
Incest? Well probably not. I think that just deals with sexual relations (dictionary.com says so too).
Morally wrong? Well I don't see anything that really points to a moral dilemma.
Ethically wrong? Hmm...maybe. But why? It's just an egg and an infertile girl. BUT it's the same DNA as the daughter (well half--before mutations and all). Is the body going to reject the same DNA egg? Probably not, because she would produce her own half-DNA egg herself if she were able.
Gosh, maybe there isn't anything wrong with this.
Well, it is the first documented...so I guess we'll have to wait some years to see whatever happens to the little Boivin girl from Canada.
You can read through the whole story here.
Technically, this child may give birth to her half-sister or half-brother.
The child is only 7 years old right now, but has a genetic disorder (Turner's Syndrome) which usually means infertility. And the mom (mid-30's healthy and fertile) has frozen 20 eggs for her daughter to use down the road.
Does this fall into ethical/morality issues? Because I'm not really sure?! But it did strike me as odd... and I got that "hmm...something's fishy" feeling in my tummy when I read it.
Incest? Well probably not. I think that just deals with sexual relations (dictionary.com says so too).
Morally wrong? Well I don't see anything that really points to a moral dilemma.
Ethically wrong? Hmm...maybe. But why? It's just an egg and an infertile girl. BUT it's the same DNA as the daughter (well half--before mutations and all). Is the body going to reject the same DNA egg? Probably not, because she would produce her own half-DNA egg herself if she were able.
Gosh, maybe there isn't anything wrong with this.
Well, it is the first documented...so I guess we'll have to wait some years to see whatever happens to the little Boivin girl from Canada.
Chivalry at it's finest
Rule # 3 of the Chivalry Code according to 19th century French historian Leon Gautier: Thou shalt respect all weaknesses, and shalt constitute thyself the defender of them.
Today, upon arriving to work, I spotted what I thought was a dead rodent on the sidewalk right in front of where I park each morning. So I was prepared to grab a shovel and scrape the little rat off of the sidewalk and into the woods (or at least I was going to get my boss to do it!)
But upon further investigation I found it to be a baby rabbit still kicking. But he was kicking on his side and then taking a break. Well I was a little nervous that I would find him incredibly punctured on the opposite side...so I was prepared for the worst. I went in and put my stuff down in the church. By the time I had gotten back to him/her, he/she had flipped over, and looked completely intact! So I cradled him in my hands and told him it would be ok. He seemed to understand that I was taking him to safety, because he didn't kick at all while in my hands. But his little eyes stared up at me the whole time. We bonded!
Life is just so precious. Maybe that's why I am hooked on watched "Babies: Special Deliveries" on Discovery Health each evening.
Recently I have been shown through numerous avenues how much balance is required in life. I started noticing it as we began learning about diabetes, and how much balance Stephen needed to have in order to keep his blood sugar at a healthy level. Then I started noticing how VERY important balance is in a marriage and sex. And then this morning, this little bunny needed more balance in his life. It's such a delicate balance and his was thrown off kilter.
When things are out of balance in a marriage, fights and hurt feelings arise. When the balance is off in a uterus, bad things happen. (Did you know that the placenta actually starts to die after 40 weeks? And it's actually dangerous for a woman to carry a baby much past that time. God sure does keep a delicate balance.)
Balance. It's what we need, it's what we want!
Today, upon arriving to work, I spotted what I thought was a dead rodent on the sidewalk right in front of where I park each morning. So I was prepared to grab a shovel and scrape the little rat off of the sidewalk and into the woods (or at least I was going to get my boss to do it!)
But upon further investigation I found it to be a baby rabbit still kicking. But he was kicking on his side and then taking a break. Well I was a little nervous that I would find him incredibly punctured on the opposite side...so I was prepared for the worst. I went in and put my stuff down in the church. By the time I had gotten back to him/her, he/she had flipped over, and looked completely intact! So I cradled him in my hands and told him it would be ok. He seemed to understand that I was taking him to safety, because he didn't kick at all while in my hands. But his little eyes stared up at me the whole time. We bonded!
Life is just so precious. Maybe that's why I am hooked on watched "Babies: Special Deliveries" on Discovery Health each evening.
Recently I have been shown through numerous avenues how much balance is required in life. I started noticing it as we began learning about diabetes, and how much balance Stephen needed to have in order to keep his blood sugar at a healthy level. Then I started noticing how VERY important balance is in a marriage and sex. And then this morning, this little bunny needed more balance in his life. It's such a delicate balance and his was thrown off kilter.
When things are out of balance in a marriage, fights and hurt feelings arise. When the balance is off in a uterus, bad things happen. (Did you know that the placenta actually starts to die after 40 weeks? And it's actually dangerous for a woman to carry a baby much past that time. God sure does keep a delicate balance.)
Balance. It's what we need, it's what we want!
Tuesday, July 3, 2007
NAKED!!
This past month, I spent most of my time with my group for CRIN 590: Collaborating with Families and School Personnel. It was a group of 7: 6 girls and 1 boy. The very first day we got together as a group, a joke about "no nakedness" being a rule for our group emerged. We, of course, milked it for all it was worth and said it daily (even incorporating it into class activities and such).
Well apparently Jim Cunningham does not feel the same as we do.
"Nakedness is next to godliness" in Jim's opinion. He has written several books about Christian nudity and other guides to things like skinny dipping.
Oh, and by the way, he's blind! (although I am pretty sure not from birth...but foxnews likes to spin it that way!)
"But if the body is what the Bible says it is -- the temple of the Holy Spirit and the image of God -- then modesty doesn't mean always covering up, it just means comporting yourself in a way that does not cause lust in others".
My question is, how does one do that? How can a naked women not cause others to lust? Someone, somewhere is going to have a problem with lust in that situation. Men are typically visual (see this article) therefore lust would be a problem. (And I am talking about widespread nudity...not nudity in nudist camps...I think that there is a totally different structure in a nudist camp.)
"For a recent interview, he walked down the stairs of his home and welcomed a visitor wearing a Catholic scapula hung around his neck, hiking boots on his feet -- and nothing in between. He's not self-conscious, and doesn't think anyone else should be." -- Well if I were blind I may not be worried about it either. He cannot see the interviewer's wide open eyes and gaping mouth!
Now with this statement, I agree: "People don't see nakedness anywhere except pornography. Everything that's naked on TV is some kind of sex theme. That creates a culture where nude is lewd, in people's minds. And it's getting worse instead of better." -- If nudity always equals sex, then of course there will be problems. It's an association thing. If you hook up a bolt of electricity to a rat and couple it with a specific sound...that rat will eventually learn that he will be shocked when he hears that tone. Therefore when he hears that tone, he will always brace for a shock, whether one is given or not.
Same with nudity. For instance, if a wife comes to bed nude, ONLY when she wants sex. Then her husband will learn, "ok, she wants sex because she is nude." Of course this might not always be the case for the woman (maybe she has a sunburn that hurts when she has a shirt on, or maybe all of her pj's are dirty one night.) But the man is going to associate naked wife with sex.
And while Cunningham would probably like it if everyone was a nudist, I think that public nudity should be contained with in camps. At least most will be in like mind with the others about the place and time of nudity. (It's too hard to explain your current (un)dress at a job interview. Plus, he/she may be looking at different assets than you're talking about!)
Well apparently Jim Cunningham does not feel the same as we do.
"Nakedness is next to godliness" in Jim's opinion. He has written several books about Christian nudity and other guides to things like skinny dipping.
Oh, and by the way, he's blind! (although I am pretty sure not from birth...but foxnews likes to spin it that way!)
"But if the body is what the Bible says it is -- the temple of the Holy Spirit and the image of God -- then modesty doesn't mean always covering up, it just means comporting yourself in a way that does not cause lust in others".
My question is, how does one do that? How can a naked women not cause others to lust? Someone, somewhere is going to have a problem with lust in that situation. Men are typically visual (see this article) therefore lust would be a problem. (And I am talking about widespread nudity...not nudity in nudist camps...I think that there is a totally different structure in a nudist camp.)
"For a recent interview, he walked down the stairs of his home and welcomed a visitor wearing a Catholic scapula hung around his neck, hiking boots on his feet -- and nothing in between. He's not self-conscious, and doesn't think anyone else should be." -- Well if I were blind I may not be worried about it either. He cannot see the interviewer's wide open eyes and gaping mouth!
Now with this statement, I agree: "People don't see nakedness anywhere except pornography. Everything that's naked on TV is some kind of sex theme. That creates a culture where nude is lewd, in people's minds. And it's getting worse instead of better." -- If nudity always equals sex, then of course there will be problems. It's an association thing. If you hook up a bolt of electricity to a rat and couple it with a specific sound...that rat will eventually learn that he will be shocked when he hears that tone. Therefore when he hears that tone, he will always brace for a shock, whether one is given or not.
Same with nudity. For instance, if a wife comes to bed nude, ONLY when she wants sex. Then her husband will learn, "ok, she wants sex because she is nude." Of course this might not always be the case for the woman (maybe she has a sunburn that hurts when she has a shirt on, or maybe all of her pj's are dirty one night.) But the man is going to associate naked wife with sex.
And while Cunningham would probably like it if everyone was a nudist, I think that public nudity should be contained with in camps. At least most will be in like mind with the others about the place and time of nudity. (It's too hard to explain your current (un)dress at a job interview. Plus, he/she may be looking at different assets than you're talking about!)
My (theoretical) children will never be safe again!
Michael Jackson is rumored to be renting a house in Virginia sometime soon.
Foxnews.com is reporting this horrific tale!
Foxnews.com is reporting this horrific tale!
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